When I started dancing, I really wanted to move my body. I saw advanced dancers moving effortlessly around the floor, and I emulated them.
So, when I went to class, I moved my body. A lot.
I took giant steps. I flung my hair around as much as I could. I stuck my arms out all the time. I tried really hard to make my hips move on every step. In general, I was over-dancing.
Nowadays, I look back on those days and cringe. When I try to replicate the things I considered to be ‘good dancing’, they now feel ridiculously inefficient. They feel awkward, unbalanced, and uncontrolled.
What is different between then-me, and now-me?
Size and Movement as ‘Dancing’
In the beginning, I felt like I needed large, super-expressive movements in order to ‘dance’. Unless I was doing all of that extra movement, it felt like I was doing nothing.
In my head, I had this idea that dancing had to make me sweat. It had to be difficult. It had to be me pushing my body to the absolute maximum exertion for full effect. I hadn’t yet learned that social dancing should be efficient and controlled; that the best dancers weren’t exhausting themselves; they were using their energy and movements in a very nuanced, efficient, and controlled way.
This doesn’t only happen to follows. You can also see this in leads who move their body all over the place, even though their leading hand isn’t doing anything. You can also see this when you have a lead that hauls a follow into GIANT or super-complex movements without understanding.
To be clear, not every dancer has problems with being too large in their movements. Some have the opposite problem: going too small with their movements. I’m specifically talking about those who move too much as a result of inefficiency – not too little.
Size and Movement vs. Efficiency and Control
Over time, many dancers experience an epiphany. Sometimes, it’s localized to a particular movement. For others, it’s a complete re-evaluation of how they’re dancing.
Sometimes, a dancer will realize that the most effective way is not necessarily the largest movement. They will suddenly understand that a very subtle hand placement, weight shift, or movement can have very drastic positive results to the quality of a movement.
Sometimes, you’ll hear the dancer say “Really? That’s all?” or “But that feels so easy!”
This is the epiphany, when a dancer starts to realize that dancing doesn’t have to be ‘hard’ if you’re using your movement efficiently. It can, however, come with mixed feelings.
Mixed Feelings: “I don’t feel like I’m dancing”
When a dancer starts to realize that there are more efficient, less-intense ways of accomplishing the same result, they aren’t always happy. Sometimes, they feel as if this new way of executing a movement doesn’t feel like dancing. Instead, they feel as if they’re just standing there doing nothing.
The best advice I can give to those people is that this is not a permanent feeling. As you become more aware of the efficiency, you also gain a deeper appreciation for subtlety. You learn how to feel every millimeter of the movement from start to finish. You become aware of your whole body moving constantly in a small way, rather than just rushing from point A to point B.
This is where you will start to feel like you’re dancing, even if the movements aren’t as big. When you learn how to control every moment in your dance, you don’t need big movements to feel like you’re dancing. Even a weight shift from one foot to the other can feel like moving. It will also improve your connection, musicality, stamina, and ability to dance to faster music.
Think of it like a university essay: many students write huge, 20 page essays, feeling that it will best showcase all the stuff they know. They are valuing the quantity of words as a demonstration of their knowledge. However, the experienced writer will say the same thing in 2 pages – knowing that this is all the room they need to properly express their thoughts. It doesn’t make them less of a writer – it makes them a greater wordsmith.
Dancing isn’t about quantity of movement – it’s about quality of movement. It’s about learning how to work each small, individual muscle on its own. It’s learning how to be efficient in your expression. Dancing is meant to be natural. It is meant to be efficient.
When you find and become comfortable with that place of efficiency, you will find it astonishingly simpler to express yourself through dance.
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Very well expressed thanks much. I would love to dance with more and more dancers who have practiced just that, it is miraculous! In the Kizomba community Bonn, Germany I found this more than anywhere else.
After starting into dancing after doing a bunch of athletic stuff my whole life, I quickly found these large movements didn’t work for Salsa. While large movements may indicate big steps, they can also come from being out of position or poor execution of the movement. Salsa rewards speed and precision of movement, so trying to move larger distances slows you down, being out of position slows you down and not having good precision in your movements also slows dancers when they have to allow more space for a pass or turn. This need for precision situation gets worse so quickly with more complex movements that I’d guess its why those are on the advanced section of the teaching syllabus. Students have to move accurately to do them.
This kind of speed with precision is not present in our daily lives, so we need training and muscle memory to do it. Because most of the dancing that people watch is performance dancing, the visuals the use are to make large movements. They may expect dance to be this way! This visual factor is not present in social dancing where the dance is done for the pleasure of the two individuals, so good timing, precision, and small steps come to the forefront in Salsa. Our arms are steady to allow good communication of the lead and our steps are small with dazzling footwork.
It’s interesting how intensity can mean more ‘feeling’. Some people think a very hard massage is the best way to get the muscle tension out. Then they do acupuncture or cranio-sacral, and at first, think it’s useless. But as they become attuned to that energy, they realize the softest and gentlest energies have the most impact on their muscle tension and find gentle becomes more beneficial than ‘hard’.
When it comes to partner dancing, each one has its tension bar. Salsa has more tension than kizomba overall. However, a lead can master INTENT, which turns to gentle yet super clear energy.
So from taking big huge steps, and ‘hauling’ (haha) your partner around, to reigning in one’s energy and channelling it more specifically and gently, it’s amazing how subtle takes on a big presence. Subtle is no longer ‘i cant feel it’. Micromovement is a beautiful thing and can be even more powerful than actual big tension moves. Sooooo interesting!!!!!!! Love your blogs Laura!! xo
I Really loved your article!! Kizomba is one of the sensual dance forms and is very unique, Meeting new people and learning Kizomba is a very memorable experience.